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Dr Kaja Franck, a senior literature lecturer at the University of Hertfordshire whose work\u00a0focuses on gothic monsters, says: \u201cPeople have a clear sense of what a vampire is due to\u00a0popular culture. Bram Stoker’s Dracula, in many ways, laid down the blueprint. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Much of it\u00a0centres on sexuality, sin and desire. Recent texts such as Stephenie Meyer’s Twilight took\u00a0this one step further by making vampires sympathetic, and reinforcing their romantic\u00a0appeal.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBiting is close to kissing,\u201d continues Kaja. \u201cTransgression and sin are tempting. Pain and pleasure are often intertwined. As with any fantasy, for some, reading about it will be enough, for others, they\u2019ll want to take it a step further.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaja suggests the fascination goes beyond popular culture too, tapping into something\u00a0deeper in the human psyche: \u201cI think humans will always like things that are a little naughty or taboo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The dark romance genre actually moves beyond vampires to other morally grey love interests, who\u00a0commit condemned acts yet are framed sympathetically. Examples include Joe Goldberg\u00a0from You and Christian Grey from 50 Shades Of Grey, famously inspired by Twilight. This interest in danger and taboo echoes in society\u2019s obsession with true crime also, indicating a substantial demand for darker narratives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kayla addresses aversion to the vampire kink, which she believes stems from media-driven misconceptions. She references the case of Welsh teenager Matthew Hardman\u00a0who, obsessed with vampires, murdered an elderly woman and drank her blood in the\u00a0belief it would \u2018turn\u2019 him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cSome people do take their fantasies too far,\u201d Kayla says. \u201cBut publicised cases like that are\u00a0rare and exactly why those into vampire roleplay get judged. It gives the impression that\u00a0we\u2019re extreme or unhinged. But for me and my boyfriend, we\u2019re both consenting adults. We know where the line is.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Irrespective of the Hardman case, skeptics worry vampire kink can escalate into unsafe\u00a0territory, raising concerns about consent and harm.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While many kinksters do keep things fantastical and don\u2019t genuinely believe they\u2019re\u00a0vampires, Celeste says she has seen firsthand what can happen when those boundaries\u00a0begin to blur.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In her younger years, she became involved in an online group that she says operated more like a cult.\u00a0Its moderators claimed to be real vampires and told members they were watching them, insisting they would eventually transform as well.\u00a0The experience created a lingering sense of paranoia and fear for Celeste, who has since spoken about it publicly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She says: \u201cNot having a clearly delineated line between fact and fiction is very dangerous,\u00a0because there’s no opportunity to decompress from situations that might distort someone\u2019s reality.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While the group Celeste joined was not explicitly kink-based, there was sexually charged roleplay, and many of the participants had a kink for vampires.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cThat group, just as an example, was neither supportive nor safe. Sadly, because it\u2019s more\u00a0underground, I think this kind of kink can be primed for the presence of unstable, unwell,\u00a0and abusive people. That’s obviously not a blanket statement about all participants, or\u00a0even all communities, but it’s an aspect that ought to be acknowledged.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Consent and communication are vital to a positive kink experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jody Sill, a UK-based psychosexual therapist, explains: \u201cIn primal play, the fear of being hunted might simulate arousal. But the key word here is play. Fear should be premeditated and consensual, with boundaries, safe words, and clear communication. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cConsent also means that minds can be changed at any point, which helps to keep people safe. All kinks have the potential to do harm if not thoroughly researched and practiced in a way that is considerate of a person\u2019s physical and mental health, needs, and limitations.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Noah echoes this: \u201cConsent is king, as is maintaining the line between fiction and reality. I know for a fact that vampires don\u2019t exist. I know it\u2019s fictional and that I\u2019m not going to become a vampire one day. I can recognise it\u2019s simply a kink.\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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